Charity thoughts

Dear charity workers who bring supplies to the villages around the world. Your job is kind and really appreciated. Valuable and in some cases, even healing.

Here is one thoughts which came to me as I witness the process of supplies delivery to a village in Malaysia, from some people who seemed to love helping. 

Rather than brining candy to the kids which will potentially be harmful for their teeth and health. Rather than bringing toys and other modern item, rather than packing everything you bring in plastic bags - Why not instead teach them ways of proper trash disposal? Why not instead supply them with biodegradable shoulder bags to replace plastic bags while shopping at market? Why not instead teach them crafts and self sustainable farming methods so that they don't become accustomed to waiting for you every month to bring them things?

They don't need things, they need skills, education and awareness. By bringing things you are creating wants and installing desire to posses and own. This things are also packaged, and in a way you're bringing trash to people who do not know how to dispose of it. 

And if you yourself bring your supplies inside plastic bags and the like, would it not make sense be sure to take it with you when you leave. To leave no trace behind.

Because after all I once hear "Give a man a fish, feed him for a day. Teach him how to fish, feed him for a life time"

This intentions come from love, but if love is to be shared, it needs to be share with truth. As this kids jump, push each other, ripping things of your hands, and fighting with each other for what you bring, does this not make you see that they need to learn how to be thankful, appreciate and share?

Here are just some suggested item and activities that come to mind.

Farming tools and to localize someone in the village who knows how to use them. Biodegradable shoulder bags. Books. Trash disposing containers. Seeds. Clothing. Create educational workshop, local style crafting, Eco awareness and education. Natural medicines. Local music and traditions.

Get in touch with the elders, or if no one is around do your own research, get involved and help recover the tradition.

Ask yourself this question.

Are you helping because it makes YOU feel good. Or are you helping because you see the need?

Please think about this.

P.s. and PLEASE, after smoking your cigaret, DO NOT throw it on the ground. This is not your home. This is their land. And you, are a guest. 

Keep doing what you do, just do it mindfully.

Thank you.